21 day Challenge
Written by: Elli
November 3rd, 2008WelcOMe to our Yoga blog!
My name is Elli and I am a student and a teacher of Yoga. It is my Intention to share my excitement about Yoga with you and to open a platform to discuss and exchange different yogic ideas and experiences. I want you to know that I do not know anything, and that I simply write about my opinions and theories. Your point of view is always welcome and I invite you to share them.
During my work as a Yoga therapist over the years, I have noticed that all of us struggle more during the holiday season to keep our balance. Making it to Yoga class becomes more challenging and keeping our center during family gatherings and parties seems almost impossible at times.
I regard Yoga as therapy. The postures are external medicine, breathing techniques are internal medicine and mantra and meditation are psychological treatments. So Meditation is medicine for the mind. To be proactive during these next weeks, I suggest to consider meditating daily, as I often prescribe it to my clients and practice myself. After a little background information, I will suggest different ways of beginning your meditation practice and also discuss overcoming common obstacles to keeping it up.
Many of us have stories made up about what it should look like or feel like to meditate and wonder what is the right way to do it. Actually, there are many different types. In the yogic tradition, they vary according to the individuals and their temperament and level of development. These may be devotional or knowledge-oriented. They may use techniques such as mental, matra, or pranayama. But all yogic forms of Meditation have certain characteristics in common, which is they aim at merging the mind into the object of its examination, which is the state of Shamadhi, “the state of perfect balance of mind”. They require going beyond the mind to the consciousness at its origin. Some may think that it is about drifting off and being free of thoughts and then struggle to reach that balance. In fact, it is about focusing on one thing, weather that be your breath, a mantra, a representation of the divine or a candle for example. It requires foremost consistency, discipline and repetition. Just as you strengthen your upper body muscles by doing more push ups, you will be able to strengthen your focus and ability to sit and move into stillness.
Depending on your time, willingness and level of experience, there are many ways to begin a Meditation practice. Please know that you cannot fail. If you attend yoga classes, you could come early or stay after to sit and meditate. Yoga studios are sacred places in which you may find it easier to quiet your mind than in your house where you have many distractions. Many local yoga studios offer free Meditation which can help those of us who lack motivation or prefer the group experience and guidance.
Another way to start is at home with five minutes a day. It has been my experience that many beginners are not able to commit to 20-30 minutes. Five minutes is all you need to start. In my opinion, morning or night work best. See if you can arrange it to meditate around the same time every day. Sit up in a chair or on a pillow, legs crossed or whatever is comfortable. The spine should be erect, supported by pillows if needed. Be sure to inform everyone in the living space of your desire not to be disturbed and set your alarm for five minutes. Begin to watch your breath. When your mind wanders, simply return your attention back to your breath without judging yourself about becoming distracted. It will happen, so bring your attention back to breathing, in and out, and when you catch yourself thinking about the past or planning the future, come back to your breath.
There are usually a few obstacles to Meditation. The first is that we may lack the energy for it and fall asleep. To deal with this as a beginner, i suggest splashing cold water in your face before starting. If you have experience in Pranayama (breathing techniques), this practice is, in my opinion, the best remedy. Prana (life force), when energized, provides the energy for Meditation. According to vedic texts, prana is the energy of the nervous system (Majja dhatu). Through Pranayama, we increase the flow of energy through the nervous system, in turn energizing the mind. If you experience fatigue, I suggest turning to Pranayama before meditating. If you would like to learn breathing techniques, ask your Yoga teacher for suggestions.
The second common obstacle is that our minds lack focus and we easily fall into subconscious thoughts and distractions, which then cause the mind to wander. Repeating a mantra can be a powerful antidote. You may have experienced that when we sit still, the mind’s activity seems to increase. When we sit and close our eyes, we take away all sensory impressions and the mind becomes revealed. It is always there, but we were not able to see or hear it. Meditation shines light on the mind, which is like an old cluttered attic or basement which has been neglected. So when you begin to practice and your mind becomes loud, you are doing great. Connect to your breath or a mantra. Please ask your Yoga teacher for suggestions for mantras.
Physical discomfort is another undeniable obstacle. I spent some time in an ashram and remember how painful it was to sit crosslegged for 30 minutes three times a day. I dismissed meditation after that, judging that it was too painful. Then I got it that I can chose to sit shorter periods of time and in different positions. So I invite you to make your body comfortable. Perhaps start in a chair, using pillows behind your back. Slowly train your body to sit on a floor pillow leaning against the wall and eventually your body will experience more ease. Of course, regular Asana practice is vital to create a light subtle body to sit for long periods in stillness. So get to your Yoga classes.
It takes 21 days to form a habit. So I challenge you for whenever you are ready, to meditate daily for 21 days straight. If you miss a day, begin again. You cannot fail, just do it.
I look forward to reading your experiences,
Namaste, Elli



Thank you for this challenge. I have a hard time getting up anyways and was wondering if you have any suggestions.
thank you.
addie,
that is a great question and i am sure that you are not alone with that. see if you can meditate before you go to bed. i suggest that just like your meal time, you schedule meditation time around the same time every day to give your life stability. another way of adressing this issue is to look at your sleeping rhythm. from a yogic perspective the best time to get up is before or right at sunrise. when we sleep any longer than that, no matter how long we sleep, we might feel groggy and hit the snooze button a few times. schedule a light dinner before 7pm and go to bed before 10pm. then get up before sunrise and see how you feel. and if that does not work for you, meditate at night.
please let us know how this works for you.
much love, elli
hey ya’ll
I visit the Dharma center here in Charleston for guided Meditation…
I cannot sit still and rather run. That is like Meditation to me.
Hey Elli!
I also believe that meditation is such a vital part of daily life. My mind is so active, obsessed with everything but the moment. The more I practice meditation the easier it is to breathe and not identify myself with all those thoughts. When I no longer identify myself with my thoughts, they lessen and become less aggressive. Meditation is a great tool but I agree that getting started and keeping up with it is definitely a struggle. Thanks for spreading your yogic philosophy with us!
Namaste!
hi lisa,
it makes sense to me that you experience a sense of meditation when you run. i vcan relate to that. it has been my experience that running clears my head too. however, sitting down to breathe and focus the mind is in my opinion different. give it a shot. practice makes the master
katie,goddess,
thank you for sharing your experience. i hear that you struggle to keep it up. and i like to remind you that it is not about being perfect
i think we can all benefit from your experience…so what is it that you say to yourself to keep it up?
thank you for writing.
much love, e
I can also relate to Lisa about how running can clear the mind. However, looking at the situation from a different perspective I see that for me running almost makes me feel numb like there is absolutely nothing going on. On the other hand meditation is on a deeper level because I have to move past the “glop” of the obsessive thoughts and into another deeper realmm. Some days I want to meditate. Others I dread it because I know it may be difficult. I try to keep reminding myself that it is so truly beneficial, which it is. Meditation is a iife-long tool.
Well, who knew that I could embrace yoga. Perhaps, meditation might do me good too. Wish me luck and continue with your helpful suggestions.
Namaste, Kate
A challenge I am excited about…finally! Thank you Elli for bringing awareness to a beautiful life practice that EVERYONE is capable of keeping. Your suggestions have brought a new level of excitement and ease to my morning meditation. For me meditation is a precious reminder to check in with myself, and appreciate the gift of my breath, thank you sister.
Namaste
Well said Elli! Your support, feedback and relivant information are all very useful to us in our practice. Thank you! Namaste.